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  給 已被原諒 或 尚未被原諒 的 父親們~

 給 選擇原諒 或 尚未選擇原諒 的 孩子們~

你聽過 Luther Vandross 唱的 "Dance with my father" 嗎?

歌詞這樣描述著:Back when I was a child

Before life removed all the innocence

My father would lift me high

And dance with my mother and me and then

Spin me around 'till I fell asleep

Then up the stairs he would carry me

And I knew for sure, I was loved

If I could get another chance, another walk, another dance with him

I'd play a song the would never, ever end

How I'd love, love, love, to dance with my father, again

Oooooh

When I and my mother would disagree

To get my way I would run from her to him

He'd make me laugh just to comfort me

Yeah yeah, then finally make me do just what my mama said

Later that night when I was asleep

He left a dollar under my sheet

Never dreamed that he, would be gone from me

If I could steal, one final glance, one final step, one final dance with him

I'd play a song that would never, ever end

'Cause I'd love, love, love, to dance with my father, again

Sometimes I’d listen outside her door

And I’d hear my mother would cry for him

I prayed for her even more than me

I prayed for her even more than me

I know I’m praying for much too much

But could you send the only man she loved

I know you don’t do it usually

But dear lord she’s dying to dance with my father again

Every night I fall asleep

And this is all I ever dream

我第一次聽到這首歌的時候

我想到你

想到小時後

沒有在你身上得到的父愛 

隱藏在淺意識裡的不在乎

原來

我對你還深深的不諒解和怒氣

二三十年後

這些負面情緒仍出奇不意的困擾我 

現在

我決定要放下這些對感情的不信任

對男人的敵意 

我選擇~原諒你~

讓這些傷痛過去 

我選擇用健康的心態去接受生命中的 喜樂 平安 和 自由

我會有幸福的家庭

我也會有意義的人生要繼續 

我也真心的感謝你

~因為有你~

我學習著做一位為自己行為負責的人

自己幸福的同時 

也要考慮到別人的感受 

~因為有你~

我才能更深切地得到生命中另一種恩典和祝福

那是來自 上帝 永無止境的愛 

祝你 父親節快樂!